Hi,
for the libg2o error, it is strange because "libg2o_opengl_helper.so" exists on my system:
/opt/ros/kinetic/lib/libg2o_opengl_helper.so
For the stereo demo error, make sure you have corresponding rtabmap and rtabmap_ros versions (don't mix rtabmap binaries and those built from source, or make sure you are using the same branch of both projects).
I tried rtabmap/rtabmap_ros kinetic binaries and the demo is working correctly. From latest code from source, I just fixed a
backward compatibility problem (just update/resintall rtabmap) making clouds/occupancy grids not rendered correctly.
cheers,
Mathieu