Call this service when the database is loaded from rtabmap:
$ rosservice call /rtabmap/publish_map 1 1 0
This will send all data to grid_map_assembler so it can generate the 2d map.
Note that latest code from source, grid_map_assembler is not required, rtabmap already publishes the grid map (so no need to call the service on start) under "grid_map" topic.
UpdateWell, the robot should find a loop closure (re-localize) before the grid map can be shown.